I was wondering what kinds of secret sins the boys were having struggles with? Mostly relations with parents and language usage. Things that may seem simplsitic to us, but diffucult for them to admit too nontheless. what you meant when you said your friend's other "condition" was that you tell the pastor? Condition for what? That he not turn you in? Or was it just that you used the wrong word? The guy who I talked to would not "turn me in". He merely stated that I needed to let the youth pastor and associate pastor know about something that has the potential to dramtically affect the ministry and the lives of the youth, which, of course, it would if they found out the hard way. If I didn't let them know, he would. One way or another, they would find out. I'd rather it be by me. Oliver |