My main concern
Submitted by Dakota on 2002-11-7 22:10:15, Thursday
In reply to Two days without end submitted by Halo on 2002-11-7 05:31:55, Thursday
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I'm assuming that since you post your adventures, you're looking for feedback and opinions. Otherwise I'd consider this none of my business. My main concern from your posts isn't really the money issue, although it sure does seem like you let yourself get taken advantage of. There seems to be a common thread showing up in several posts. Let me give a few examples. Ginger said he conned you out of the money because he considers you a pervert. The dude at work quizzes you, trying to find out if you'd rather take out some girl or El and Pichu. El/cujo has threatened several times to "tell his parents all about you" when you didn't give him money. Now in this post you say Pichu doesn't want people at work to find out about "it." It sounds like more than friendship is going on. I'm not accusing you of having sex with these boys, but I must admit I consider it a possibility. But even if there has been no actual sex, these boys are obviously picking up that you want more than friendship. Otherwise Ginger wouldn't think you were a pervert, El would have nothing to threaten to tell on you about, your co-worker wouldn't be wondering if you have a romantic interest in the boys, and Pichu wouldn't be ashamed to have his co-workers find out about you hanging out together and you spending money on them. I think you really need to re-evaluate what you want from these boys and stop pretending that all you want is to be their protector. You obviously are looking for something from them, whether it be sex, cuddles, or something else, and you are willing to pay thru the nose to get it. This isn't a healthy situation for the boys or you, and I doubt it is pleasing to God, which should be your main concern. I'm really sorry to have to be so harsh, but as a fellow Christian, I think I should point it out when I think I see an unhealthy situation in another Christian's life. But I don't want to condemn you either, because I'm not perfect either and have issues in my own life. I guess my purpose in posting this is to get you to take another look at what you're doing in the context of whether it is pleasing to God. Dakota |
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