Re: Ok - so let's try to put the opposite case
Submitted by boylover75 on 2002-11-9 04:04:37, Saturday
In reply to Ok - so let's try to put the opposite case submitted by Forgiven on 2002-11-9 03:21:10, Saturday
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"1)Sex is for heterosexual, not homosexual relationships." take 2 adult men, for example, who really love and care for each other. sex is just one of many ways that they show their love for each other. some people can't help being gay and, therefore, will never have the chance to fall in love with the opposite sex-only others of the same sex. "2) Sex is for permanent, life long relationships. a) We as BLs are liable to lose interest in the boy as he grows into a man b) It is not realistic to expect the boy to make that long term commitment when he is so young" you don't just love a boy and one day tell him you're not going to love him because he's reached a certain age. you let the boy know that you are a boylover and are not interested in people over a certain age and, because of that, you will not be able to love him all of his life but you will always be his friend. "3) The use of pix is, at some point, to commit 'adultery in the heart' as Jesus warns us against the sermon on the mount." to me, adultery is cheating on someone else with whom you are in love with and i am not doing that by looking at these pix and if i met the right boy, i would discontinue looking at them. |
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