This is a summary of my position, based on a series of proposition that can each be further discussed. But at least it gets the discussion going. 1) Sex is for heterosexual, not homosexual relationships. 2) Sex is for permanent, life long relationships. a) We as BLs are liable to lose interest in the boy as he grows into a man b) It is not realistic to expect the boy to make that long term commitment when he is so young 3) The use of pix is, at some point, to commit 'adultery in the heart' as Jesus warns us against the sermon on the mount. So on the whole I don't think your present life style or hopes are appropriate for a Christian!! But do feel free to challenge. |