That is the mantra of this forum. There are many of us out there that suffer with these desires. Granted, mine are towards prepubescent boys, I know your struggles. Never forget that God will always give you an out. Also know this, once you fall the first time and engage in that behavior, it will be that much more difficult for you to stop. You will be living with guilt, every time you look at your wife. You will be living in fear of being found out. You will be living in guilt of going against God. See that this is the easiest you will have it, to put a stop to it, it only get's harder the longer you wait. My prayers are with you, RF |