In my case
Submitted by Dakota on 2002-11-21 22:27:18, Thursday
In reply to Some of us have no choice submitted by Drifter on 2002-11-21 19:19:34, Thursday
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"Ive never understood why people who have an alternative still choose to accept the bl label." In my case, it was NOT accepting the label that made life so hard for me. I am attracted to women, although I think I'm MORE attracted to boys. I did the dating thing and even enjoyed a few sexual encounters with women. But denying my BL side was messing me up. It is real and it can be strong at times, and it simply will not allow itself to be ignored. Acknowleging it's presence and saying to myself, "ok, I know it's there, I know it's a part of me, so I'll just set it over here in the corner and go on about my daily life," is what gave me the freedom to live normally. I've discovered that there are times when the sexual attractions ease and aren't as strong. But the minute I start to think God has maybe delivered me, it kicks me in the butt. So I don't ever want to totally ignore it. But that is the answer I've found that works for ME. That doesn't mean you might not find a better way. Dakota |
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