Some of us have no choice
Submitted by Drifter on 2002-11-21 19:19:34, Thursday
In reply to Ever feel like you can escape this? submitted by Reason Filled on 2002-11-21 18:27:52, Thursday
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I understand where you are coming from. I often wonder why those of us lucky enough to have a secondary sexual attraction bother identifying themselves as bl. I often think that, if I were straight and bl or gay and bl I would move past it and never look back. But in my case, Im not attracted to men or women, so my only sexual orientation is that of a pedophile. That being the case, it is too difficult to simply ignore this aspect. I cant just stop going to bl sites and pretend to be normal, that wont make me attracted to women. Because there is no other outlet of love/lust available, it is impossible to ignore my pedophile nature. I cant just 'play the being normal game', I tried it once, in high school. The girl attempted suicide when I dumped her and I realized its not a fun game to play when someone else's feelings are involved. From bl's who are or have been married, I often hear that marriage was the worst mistake they made. If I could at least date women, I could ignore my bl side, but since I cant, I cant. If you have a secondary attraction (or in fact, a primary with boys being your secondary), then you are right in asking yourself why you bother to come here and identify yourself as bl, Ive never understood why people who have an alternative still choose to accept the bl label. e-mail: webnomad@ziplip.com url: http://www.fpc.net/sites/drifter/ |
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