And to be honest, my YF loves me more than his. It is not necessary to extend physical intimacy to sexuality in order to express love- but where both parties and God are mutually engaged and honored it would of course provide a deeper experience of that love in the physical (and most likely emotional and spiritual) form. I never said we must love every person sexually, and I suppose whether or not sexual expression is "ultimate" is defined by the intensity and form of the relationship. So, to answer your question, I propose parents to love their children as they do. I speak only of AF/YF love where both parties are of one accord concerning sexual desire. Peace and Love, Plato |