a very logical contribution. At the risk of damning it with faint praise, the problem comes when our emotions blow up in our face. At that point logic isn't enough - I've found that I need to have appropriate places to be emotionally intimate in a variety of relationships, with the result that none of them becomes uniquely important to the point where things start to go wrong. But I like your thoeretical underpinnings - though there are some here that might be less enthusiastic! |