Re: This is probably stupid........

Did you say "unhealty"? Matthew 19:10 states: The disciples said to him, "If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry." Jesus replied, "Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For some are eunuchs because they were born that way; others were made that way by men; and others have renounced marriage because of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it". As BLs, we are not programmed to desire sexual activity with an adult of our own. There are without doubt BL's who try to deceive themselves in believing that they can act as normal and straight heterosexuals. However, if and when they get married, they are of course still quite "unprogrammed" for a heterosexual life with respect to oneīs own life and that of oneīs spouse. If anything in this world is unhealhy, then itīs this choice of life for a BL. With this line of thougt, or reality, you have indeed hit the nail on the head for a very unappropriated life style! WP