one of the positive aspects of this place is that here we are no longer the only one struggling with these issues; there are others on this board who are in exactly your position (having a wife / kids), who have bought up children to adulthood struggling with this issue. Not that there are any easy solutions - I have never come across any serious evidence to suggest that we can blame 'a spirit that has attatched itself to our lives'. But talking about who we are, how we cope, what we find hard and what are the problem areas is in itself very positive. I hope that you hang around and post some more. |