Bach, thanks for your insights.. they are helpful. yeah, if I were 100% hetero, i couldn't opt for the secure life-- at least I know I'd go nuts if I tried. One unquestionable benefit to being a boyloving Christian is the perspective it gives us. We can't really fall into the game of being a comfortable-Christian and stop asking questions, and thereby stop growing... Sometimes I think that I would've never found God if I didn't have boylove to keep me humble. Thanks again, Jeremy |