John Guard, You wrote: Yeah, they may be decent and legal and innocent..from a worldly standard, but the time that I should had been using to grow in the LORD and spreading HIS Love went instead to things which were not productive. Kids became mere objects...to tantalize oneself and others. How I lament that now..because there were so many kids that I could had helped better had I not been so foolish. I, on the other hand, after 20 years of growing in the LORD and spreading His Love, decided I really hadn't helped very fully and loved very fully very many kids and others I had tried to "help." And I needed to explore sexuality to better understand love and them and myself. I suppose now my main objective isn't to "help," but to "be." Ray |