Re: quite the flick
Submitted by Ben on March 18 1999 at 06:08:50
In reply to quite the flick Submitted by Jeremy on March 17 1999 at 12:44:44
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Hello Jeremy - I guess you must have been here before I arrived (not hard to do since I've only been here for a few months :-). A couple of replies to your comments: ...large part to this forum) tentatively concluded that I'm going to be attracted to boys for some time to come yet, and I need to deal with it. God can work with anything, no matter it's origin, if we give it up... In fact you most probably will be attracted to boys ALL of your life. Other than passing youth homosexual feelings in teenagers, adult BLs are unlikely to shift their orientation. It has taken me most of my adult life to realize who I am and that most of it wont change. However what I DO with who I am is wholly up to me. And wholly changeable BY me :) ... to be human, how will I ever feel true mutual love now that I'm much older than those whom I fall in love with. This throws a small..." You may never feel mutual love if for you love must be sexually consummated. Beyond that I can promise you that love is possible. I have been in love 5 or 6 times in my life and have never once had sexual contact with the boy that I have loved. Indeed there was PLENTY of fantasy on my end. Maybe there was fantasy on his end as well :) But you do not have to have sex to love, though I would argue that sex can and should be a part of love (ie it is not SEPARATE from love). Remember Corinthians 13 -- "hope, faith and love. But the greatest of these is love." You are not alone. 
Ben |