Hi Pat, Welcome to CBF. I hope that your husband, Pat, can join us too. The most helpful thing to coming out as a BL is to realize that you aren`t a monster. Reading boards such as this one re-affirms our beliefs that Boylove is a gift from God. A challenging gift, but all the same it gives us special insight and energy to work positively for youth. You ask important questions. Just hanging around here, and being with him will show him that you accept who he is. Fear of rejection is the biggest hurdle for BLs, just as it is for gays. Please do keep posting. Peace of Christ, Bach |