my recent "outing"
Submitted by oliver on April 22 1999 at 00:27:12
In reply to I just came out to my pastor Submitted by Mark on April 21 1999 at 23:15:11
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Interesting Mark, I had a phone conversation with a cyber friend of mine. It was my first time to talk to anyone outside cyberspace openly as a boylover. He's known I've been a BL since I met him online. I suppose, like you, there's that sense of anonymity that has always been a security blanket, but that slowly disappears the more about yourself you reveal. I wasn't actually scared, but it will be interesting to see how things progress now that truth has been revealed. My friend and I may meet someday face to face. I think I'd like this arrangment--meeting a non judgemental non BL before I out myself to someone like my pastor. I'll be praying for you and your decisions in the near future; I know this one wasn't easy, but it was probably the hardest. God bless you for setting an example for us all. I hope to match your valiantry some day, perhaps sooner than I think. Love, Oliver |