Bach, I like your comment. Very well thought out and very provocative..especially for me. I did stay in the inner city once and got to know the kids (I was doing some counselling work). To make the long story short, I found myself understanding and being understood better by better relating to people. The only possible risk sometimes is that I get carried away and excuse some of their...errr behavior at times..but thats my problem :) My two cents, John Guard |