Thanks Heather, I'm continually amazed at how small the internet makes the world. Here I've been dealing with this issue in private wishing I had someone to talk to about it and, boom, I post here and you share your experiences which are exactly in line with what I'm facing. I think I am going to talk to my friend afterall. I'm actually moving away from here for a while so I won't be around him nearly as much. I think it will be ok. THanks again, jeremy |