Chris - Thanks for pointing this out. I have to believe that, had I been born a heterosexual male, that I would now be a happily married man with a wife and 4 kids. I would be so content with a great family and a good job that there would APPEAR to be no hole in my life to fill. Were it not for me being a BL, God's way of calling to me (I believe that God calls to us all at some time) might never have been heard. Jesus asked his followers to give up EVERYTHING that they had if they wanted to follow him. As a BL, I have lots that I am happy to give up and very little that I am unwilling to part with, in order to truly lead a Godly life. Oh, it isn't all a picnic, but being a BL makes me more open to the possibility that God has a bigger plan for my life :) You are not alone. Ben |