group hug ?
Submitted by F.O.D. on July 05 1999 at 16:27:50
In reply to my eyes have been opened .... Submitted by sensitive tks on July 03 1999 at 20:29:39
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Actually my dad can be pretty good in some ways, it's just there's some things he just doesn't get. But I know he means well, or would like to mean well. There was this one time we were on a bus, it was noisy, so I put my head up close to hear better. He pushed my head away and said "what are you, a fag or something?". You can add that little anecdote to your file. But the last time we spoke by phone he told me "I love you". Hey, if your couch is booked out, maybe we should have a group session instead ;) All the guys (well, both of them) who tried to "help" me out of homosexuality pinned it on my dad. The first guy, I thought he was a total creep. Kept telling there was some problem with my father, when there wasn't! Only that he could have been a bit more involved with me, but I was too perplexing for him. The other guy, he was a psychologist, and got everything he knew about homosexuality out of some text book. He knew all the cliches. I couldn't understand why I didn't fit in with his view of homosexual reality - I'm quite happy with the size of my not-at-all-small dick, I didn't cross the street to follow some guy going the other way on the other side... He said he wanted to apply his therapy so that I wouldn't feel upset about some less than ideal homosexual experiences from when I was younger nor feel anxiety over my homosexual feelings. Hey, I guess it worked! I'm not feeling upset or anxious about them! Heh, he also told me not to spend so much time with teenage boys. Oops. gotta go Fod ps I'm not ignoring your Q at RDC. I got this book with some references, and I keep meaning to grab it for you. Tomorrow, yeah. pps did I tell you about this kiss the other week? oh, yeah, i did. hahaha just teasing. Some kind friends worked out all my future plans for me on Sunday. Apparently I must go and take up a job offer at such and such, where I will be able to meet the girl of their dreams and get married, and live happily ever after. What do you say to something like that? I told them maybe I won't bother getting married. Maybe I'll just adopt a kid instead. Didn't manage to convince them though or change their minds about my future. |