You said "In retrospect, like you I did the best thing in terms of security, but the wordst in terms of love. I cannot forget the look of hurt that the boy gave me" I know what you mean, I seen it too. i feel that in a amonth or two i will start giving his quick kisses and set boundries, of what I accept. He needs to learn where other peoples boundries start and stop and needs to work with them otherwise he might end up in jail for going to far. later |