Re: thatīs my daily routine
Submitted by Anthony Cane on August 11 1999 at 07:04:17
In reply to Letting nature take its course Submitted by Night Wolf on August 10 1999 at 17:03:33
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Hi Night wolf It was nice to hear again from you. I was happy to see that I could clarify my point. Let me tell you a little about my daily routine and fantasies. I am known as a person who can talk about sex with boys who have been caught doing "dity things" (Iīm quoting) and "help them out before itīs too late" This is how things normally happen: A very scared father gets in touch with me. He feels that he must have done something terribly wrong as a father because he or someone else caught his (10 year old boy) "doing That" (They canīt even use the word sex)with another boy. Then I am left alone with a beautiful and very scared little boy who feels that his life is totally destroyed because he did "Those things" He looks at me as if I were a doctor that could do something to help him recover from a terrible sickness. Then I proceed to calm everybody involved. I provide all the information they need. It takes me about two months to convince everybody that nothing definite has happened Then the same old routine takes place. I keep working with the boy (I sometimes wonder what would happen if these people had the slightest idea that I am a boylover who is having secret sexual fantasies involving the boy I am working with)Then after some time (It may take about 5 years in some cases) they finally decide what they want to do with their sexual life. They normally decide that they want to have an heterosexual relationship.(But at this point most of the involved people have learned to be more tolerant to other sexual preferences) Isnīt it contradictory that these results that could be considered frustrating from my point of view are the source of my success as a counselor. |