Hi there, I asked above but as you chose not to answer, I'll post the question again in a different way. Do you consider your counselling to have been successful if the boy you are "working" with grows up to be a heterosexual rather than a homosexual? If so, shy would you think that? Also, I'm wondering why you engage in a 5 year course of counselling because a boy had a mutual sexual experience with another boy. Isn't that a bit over the top? Why is it necessary? Jim |