Hi Nash, It's weird because I just got done e-mailing you. Anyway, thank you for your advise, my friend. "F" does indeed know quite a bit about sex. She is 12 now and has been going through her time of the month quite regularly. My mom has had a talk with her about sex before but I am planning on doing that again with her a few times. I think one of my biggest problems is that her dad (my brother) won't talk with her about it. He is too embarresed to and she is kind of "mirroring" his embarresment. I talked with her this evening after work about the incident and everything, I actually wasn't upset too much about the actual incident but more about her telling her friends about it. I wound up giving her a big hug with an "I love you" attatched and promised her we would be talking about sex latter. (*I would have gone on with the talk about sex but I think I need to do a little reading up on the subject myself. I know quite a bit but I am still no expert.) Anyway, I think things are going to be ok BECAUSE noone panicked or anything (thank God). I wonder if her and her brother will ever know that it was a boylover who had to talk with them about sex. Oh well, whatever works, right? Thank you again, Nash, I rally appreciate your advise big time. Your Friend in Christ, Chris |