Re: I have a problem and need advise
Submitted by Nash on August 12 1999 at 22:40:56
In reply to I have a problem and need advise Submitted by Chris on August 12 1999 at 21:36:48
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Hey Chris, This is a tough one. Don't know if my advice will be good or not. You are not to concerned that they were naked together in the closet but with what "F" was telling people at school. Do you think "F" knows what sex really is? Maybe she thinks that if a boy and girl are naked together that it is sex? So in her mind she did not think she was lying to her friends. Maybe you can talk to her and ask her what does she think sex is, then go from there. If she really does not know then i suggest your brother give her the birds and bees talk. If she does know then tell her what she said to her friends was wrong and that other people could be hurt by it, or to that effect. My parents never gave myself,brothers and sisters that talk at all, we just learned it on our own in time. I remember when i was around age 10 my friends(male and female) would play around naked,play doctor etc. There was no actual sex involved but it was a good experience for me. Of course our parents never knew about it. If they did then maybe we would have had that talk back then. I am sure 'F','A' and 'B' are really embarrased about it all now and probably won't do it again any time soon. Hopefully this situation will not make them feel like exploring is a bad thing and thus making it more difficult for them in the future to come out. Hope something here helped. Good luck. Love, Nash |