Love for a boy will continue on as long as the boy is alive and after. Lust for the boy will stop when the boy reaches a certain age. My sexual feelings are only for boys; they fade out by the time he reaches 16-18 yo. Therefore, as I understand it, you're saying all of my sexual feelings and any expressions of them are (or would be) lust, and therefore sinful. But you said... God created sex, and gave it to mankind, therefore how can it be wrong... God did not create sex for mankind, then give us these urges, and then say, "Dont have sex." That would be cruel, mean, and we know that there is no evil in God. Maybe you don't mean for that last statement to apply to BLers. I'm not necessarily agreeing or disagreeing; I just want to clarify what you're saying. Are you saying that sexuality (including sexual feelings, thoughts, and actions) is good for straight people (and maybe gays, I don't know your position on that), but evil for others (such as BLers)? My impression is that this is d's position. Mark |