I have found that spending time with boys in a healthy and good way (i.e. non-sexual). Lowers my craving for fantasizing and all that goes with it. The exact same thing happens with me. I noticed this dramatically this past summer when I was counselor at a church camp, living in a cabin with 5 boys, and interacting with them constantly. It was one of the best experiences of my life. I never felt the need to fantasize or masterbate, in spite of the fact that I found one of the boys very attractive. The only trouble is I don't get to do this year round! Mark |