Ok, does anyone want to enlighten me on the history of this board and let me in on as to why it was originated? I did not know that I should study a history of a board b4 talking with or having fellowship with other Christians, but I'm proud of you for doing so and devoting so much of your time to doing just that, I don't have the time, I get on the computer when I can off and on thru out the day, some days I don't even have a chance to get on. But... I will say this.... it makes no difference to me why the CBF Board was started....makes no difference to me why the Forum on network 54 was started, I fell more compelled to post here b/c of the Christian atmosphere and what I have said in previous posts. I'm sure your a very good parent and your not the only parent out there, just b/c I didn't go into more detail then I did on my post I hope you'll change your opinion about me and not think that I don't talk to my kids and listen to them. Their opinions, feelings, needs, everything about them is my #1 priority.And as far as taking them to a sunday school where everyone is fingerprinted, well your very lucky to have that, I went to my Church b/c I felt like it was the one God led me too and I will leave it when God leads me to do so. And to this day my son has not been left alone w/any grown man from my church and I think it would be very sad if I couldn't trust some of the men at my church that my family and I have come to love so much and know that they are wonderful Christians. And as a matter of fact, nope my son has never gone to a summer camp, never been anywhere where he should be taking a shower other than my house and his Dad's house, and we didn't even let him join boyscouts b/c of the fact that we don't know who the scout masters are, they have opportunities to be alone w/the boys. I would even venture to say that we have been over protective more than under protective.and Yep we did the teaching thing, you know videos about adults luring children, we've had the talks with them all, and I pray to God that they never ever experience that. But...if it does I will deal with it, I will have to.And I apologize to you personally if I sounded like I didn't know anything about boylovers and what I was talking about in regards to them, b/c I don't and as I said I didn't think I needed to read the history of any board b4 conversing w/members.I did scan over the info on the main page of this site and i will rescan it again... but I don't think it will change my way of thinking.... I don't have a problem w/this site nor do I have a problem w/the people here. In fact I admire their honesty and am happy they are Christians. You know.. maybe if my stepfather had access to something like this years ago... maybe it would've helped him be stronger..to not be tempted to act on his desires to have sex with young children. And I am smart enough to know this... anyone could come to this message board and post under three or more assumed names and be the same person. Anyone could come to this board professing Christianity and it not be true. Anyone can come in here say anything they like regardless of the truth in it and I'd never know. But ... I'm going on blind faith here. I would like to think that my being here just might make someone feel little better or help someone out, and vice versa. My stepfather never told us why he was the way he was, I never got a sorry after hearing my sister was raped so I'm here... just followed a link... and the only knowledge I have of the situation is from being a victim... but I was not the victim of anyone on this board. I don't know what else you would have me say... sorry if I don't know as much as you think I should. If i reply to a post its my opinion only, and probably based alot on how I was feeling at the moment etc etc.
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