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Yes, it was me and I would do it again as a teaching tool to use when people think and tell me that they could never be a Christian Boylover and their is none in their place of worship. You don't know the back ground of why this board was created and the history behind it. May I suggest in the future that people sit back read and learn why and what a board is about before making statement that sound like judgements when they know nothing about it. Just like I sit and listen a very long time before I comment on any message board! Including this one, in fact I only come and left message when I was invited. "How would I feel if my son's sunday school teacher was a boylover? Well, guess I will never know, I know I wouldn't like it, but don't think he would volunteer the info either. And let's say I did find out, I'd really limit the time he was around my son, and I would tell my son why, and if it bothered me too darn bad I'd find me another church. And hopefully my son will never take a shower with a boylover??" I am going to tell you how I would answer these question just so you know where I come from. 1. "How would I feel if my son's Sunday school teacher was a Boylovers?" I teach my children safety measures and because I listen to my children, I would not have a problem with it. I do believe that my children would tell me if a person made them feel uncomfortable and have including family members. If a man or a woman has not committed a crime, I would not judge him or her threat to my child. I would not send my children to a Sunday School that did not fingerprint the teachers any more than I would send a child to school without making sure the school fingerprinted the staff including the workers. It is the parents responsible to watch out for the child not scare the child or take away his or her childhood or forces them to face adult problems. The key word is to listen to what your child is saying.... 2. And hopefully my son will never take a shower with a Boylovers? If you son (assuming you have a son) has gone to boys group, camps, played sports, the chance is very high he has taken a shower with a Boylovers and never knew it. 3. One subject I know we will never agree on this "gays". I believe if a adult's person has found love on this earth I really can see it has a sin no matter what sex it is. Now that is if it is adults involved in this romance. Children are too young for romance, sex or any thing but learning in school and playing safe with the parents watching over them. |