Re: I did not read Shari comment! (mi)
Submitted by Witness on October 26 1999 at 14:23:35
In reply to I did not read Shari comment! (mi) Submitted by Pamella (BlackWolf) on October 26 1999 at 10:06:49
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First off, yes I walk the walk but don't presume that just because I'm a saved Christian that I have no faults and that any other Christian has no faults and won't ever sin again, even as Christians we are sinners. And my being here on this boylover board is not b/c I think I'm better than them by any means. I will offer my "opinion" just like everyone else, and if it offends anyone than I would apologize. When did I ever come across as trying to act like God? I didn't mean to and if I ever did it was not my intention. My reason for posting on this board was to learn more about boylovers, and my reason is maybe it will help me understand why my stepfathe molested me and my brother and raped my sister when she was 12 years old. I walk the walk every day, not only for my sanity but b/c I would not raise my children as none christians, and am proud to say that my oldest son who is 11 yrs old is already saved, so I'm not ashamed of "the walking I do".As far as juding you or anyone else, you know I really don't know any of you, all I can do is go on blind faith here on the web and I may be wrong but was it you that posted the url to CBF on the network 54 Forum?and sorry if I had you wrong, what was your reason for doing that again? How would I feel if my son's sunday school teacher was a boylover? Well, guess I will never know, I know I wouldn't like it, but don't think he would volunteer the info either. And let's say I did find out, I'd really limit the time he was around my son, and I would tell my son why, and if it bothered me too darn bad I'd find me another church. And hopefully my son will never take a shower with a boylover?? but you know what... if by some chance my son turns out to be gay... I'm gonna love him regardless... but I won't love his lifestyle. I don't think any that me and my husband know, if they are a boylover will volunteer the info, and probably b/c they already know where we would stand on the issue. None of this info I think comes as a surprise to the CBF members what I'm saying, I've been honest and upfront about my views, but the bottom line is I'm a Christian and if given the opportunity to witness to someone then I choose that instead of a argument or something else. And as far as judging the CBF members (you know the weakness part) I'm going by what they are posting... they have said they are attracted to boys... that is the #1 common factor here other than being a christian. I'm not judging them and again if someone feels I am I would happily apologize. And for the record ..... if I had the money to give to the abused and the "street children" I'd glady give it, until I do tho I will do as much as I can and I commend you on your work in that area. And I do not presume to know anything about what boylovers encounter in their day to day life, I do know that these men are Christians and I'm glad they are and that this is a place for them to come and not only share those day to day things but to share in fellowships and debates.I am in the process of learning about boylovers so if I came across as a "know it all" to anyone , I really apologize. And not only is it worthwhile the causes you support, but it is worthwhile what they are doing here at CBF. And for the record... not that its really anyone's business but glad to share this too... yes I have a morning devotional that helps me get thru my day and remember all the reasons I'm a here. My devotional not includes a daily reading of my bible, but other Christian books as well. Then I write in my journal after that... any other questions? |