Re: Trying to picture the bunny :o)
Submitted by Faith Elliston on November 02 1999 at 10:00:35
In reply to Re: Trying to picture the bunny :o) Submitted by BLues. on November 02 1999 at 05:03:25
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Hey there BLues! hugs! oh man, thank you for sharing with me like that. Listen... I want you to go back and reread what you wrote me, b/c in what you wrote I found that you gave Michael alot of positive things to carry on with him thru out life. And hopefully Michael will be able to pass and share those lovely qualities on to other people as well and he will remember that it was you who helped him learn so much, that right there is the good. Now... about his Mom, what in the world is she thinking smoking pot in front of her kid? She wouldn't like me, I'll give you an example. My hubby & I have some really really close friends who love pot, they smoked it one night when we were over there w/our kids and another couple was there. I cussed em out in front of everyone, I told my husband I would not be a part of it, anyone could've walked by a window seen them and b4 you know it the police are there and kids being taken away from their parents and I didn't want to be a part of it. His Mom hopefully has had someone help her with that problem, who knows sometimes the kids are good witness' to their parents. BLues, looking back over my life I have only 2 other serious relationships that I ever had. One I still have trouble thinking about b/c I cared so deeply for this man. But I realized this... If we had stayed together back then, if fate hadn't taken its own course...I never would've been able to appreciate him for who he really was b/c I had so many problems, I never broke it off w/him fate just stepped in and took care of things for me.... after all those years I found his email... I won't tell you anymore about that but I think all things work out how they are supposed to. I know this situation obviously hurt you, but its in God's hands, he is in control and your gonna have to rely on your faith to accept and believe that Michael is ok and is going to turn out to be a wonderful young man. As far as sometimes you have to take a side, maybe sometimes you do... but I can't in this case. I don't agree w/some of the things you told me about his Mom, but you have to remember even still tho she's maybe not your ideal picture perfect mom for Michael, she loves him, and the bottom line is she's probably doing the best she can however little or much it may be. She really needs to be remembered in prayer. I'll be praying for her and Michael and that you'll have some peace over this. K? hugs :) |