Send me your Views
Submitted by Jay on November 19 1999 at 21:04:48
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Even though I have only recognized that I'm a BoyLover, I have realized that with the advice that everyone has given me and the contact that I have had with a few other men who have been cool enough to respond to me, and give me hope and self-confidence about being a boylover. I just want to say even though a few days ago or actually a day ago, I was strongly attracted only to 6 yo boys for awhile, well, now I have realized that I'm attracted to boys and men, is that possible you may ask? Well, I don't know, but I am. I can't explain it really or maybe I can. All my life I have been told that you can't have feelings for the same sex, well I did and I will keep on having these feelings until the day and beyond. Then people also told me that you can't be attracted to younger boys because that is not normal. Well, the hell with those people. I'm gay, I'm a BoyLover and I'm happy with my life. I know there are a few of you out there that think your not gay, but you are? How can you say your attracted to young boys but your not gay? Is it because you are attracted to young boys and not older men your age and so on. What's the definition of gay? Attracted to members of the same sex, doesn't matter the age. Wait, are boys, male? Yeah I think so. Well, anyway I am just saying that this whole BL community has opened up my eyes and realizing that there are men out there that are boylovers which is so cool. Some men out there that are Boylover's have sex with young boy's and some of you sit back and just have feelings for young boy's without taking the chances to getting involved with a young boy. So does it mean if you have never had sexual contact or intimacy with a boy, does that mean your not a genuine BoyLover? Heck, if you have to be a genuine boylover by getting involved with a younger boy, then I think I will be on the outside looking in. I'm totaly afraid to even approach a young boy, less than have sexual contact with him. Yeah, I know there is alot more to loving boys than just sex, there is commitment, emotional bonds and things like that. Can you care for a boy without ever getting intimate with a boy? Is that even possible. Is it labeled a crime to have fantasies and desires for young boys without acting on those desires. I know that these sites are just for BoyLover's and not pedophiles or child molesters. But come on, are you guys telling me that you never have the feeling's just to touch a young boy and not worrying about it again. Yeah, I know that it's not good to do that, but how do we differ from child molesters and predators of children. What makes us different? Is it because we can say that we love the child and want that child to live a good life. What if the Pedophile feel's the same way? Or what if the Child Molester has strong love for young boys, but the only way that he has been taught love, is to have sex with young boys by the dozen. I know there are many different views on love or sex with boys. You know I think that society on a whole needs to come together as a whole and understand that we all have our own little desires and own little lifestyles. Are there men out there that don't think there gay? If you are a Boylover and you don't think your gay, please send me an email and tell me how you figure you are not gay. I'm not here to start trouble or create turmoil, I just want to get a better understanding as a BL, I want to see every aspect of what people feel about being a BoyLover, I want responses about everything that you feel with this. Send me your Question's of Me, Send me your comments, letter's, pictures or whatever, I want to try and write a short book about everyones life's and there things that go on in there lives as BOYlovers. So send me your stories about : Experiences with Boys ( Preferably 1st Time Exp ) as A BoyLover Feelings about acceptance in your life about who you were or are If you feel that you are gay Your Outrlook on Child Pornography? Your outlook on Child Prostution? Your Outlook on Men who abuse young children for just sexual pleasure? What the difference or the ralization is for a boylover who loves young boys and has sex with them or contact and that of the man who goes out there and has sex with boy's by the dozen? Your Feelings about other minority's: Blacks, Asians, Gay's, Girl Lovers, Straights (?), etc Your coming out to parents stories about being a BoyLover ? Your reactions to crimes against children? Just please send me any info that you can, I want to get a wide perception of how everyone feels Thanks Jay |