Re: its been a little while...
Submitted by F.O.D. on December 04 1999 at 02:30:25
In reply to its been a little while... Submitted by Scott on December 03 1999 at 22:43:03
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glad to hear some nice things are going on. Make sure you don't get pressured into marriage. Don't do it just because she says she wants it. Do it because you also want it, or don't do it at all. Nice to hear your YF still holds you in great esteem. Sounds like you had fun at the home ;) I'm thinking about making arrangements for E to live with me, maybe Y too. But likely only for a temporary period, not permanently, if at all. It'd be good for their education and general life experience. But maybe it won't be possible. I need to look into it further. Bringing up a near adult YF, the only principle I can think of is that you want to make sure he's not going to just be a leech. Be sure he's able to take on an education or take up a serious job. Will you be a positive influence on each other? Love, Fod |