I only call myself a boylover around here. If I did that in real life I think the people I work with would hate me and the youth ministry stuff I do in my spare time would be over with. I'm a boylover cause I'm strongly compelled to have friendships with teenage guys. I like to be a role model and a mentor....even a father figure to those who have physically or emotionally absent biological fathers. Don't ask me why I have these feelings....it would be way more "normal" and "acceptable" in my career field to be on my second wife, have 1.5 kids from both marriages, and worship the almighty dollar. All I can say is....God had other plans for me. Even though I am celibately straight boylover....I still find this place to be interesting and educational. I've learned a lot about myself from listening to you all and the best thing is I've learned is....I'm not alone. |