I keep getting asked this question about CBF, and though I've been attempting to provide my own answers, I was wondering how the celibate boylovers here would answer the question. Why do you call yourself a boylover? I mean, the word is almost universally regarded as a synonym for child molester – at the very least, it is taken to mean someone who believes that adult-child sex is morally permissible (which I realize applies to some celibate boylovers, but it doesn't apply to everyone here). I guess my real question is: Why do you hang out with the boylove community, risking misunderstanding from your fellow Christians, rather than seek out a nonboylove support group that welcomes minor-attracted adults? Heather (hoping she'll have some better answers the next time someone asks) |