thanks for your kind words, and good advice. if he does come to live with me, he will most definitely either be working or going to school. he will *not* be a leech... and you are right, it would do him worlds of good to be able to stand on his own two feet. he is such a complex person... he needs to be his own man... and i respect that, but sometimes it gets him into trouble (gee, kinda sounds like me a little...hehe). well, i got a while yet, so i will be thinking and praying about it for a while yet. i will keep you in my prayers, i hope you might begin to feel better. and thanks for thinking so highly of my GF... she *is* wonderful, in my entirely unopinionated opinion! see ya, Scott |