The first time I "came out" to someone about my sexual attraction was when my roommate asked me if I was a pedophile. Imagine my surprise! She didn't have any particular clues. She said it was my music (boy choirs), the movies I choose :), and the way I interact with young people. So... she made a guess and there I was, exposed, so to speak. People are able to intuitively sense that something is different, usually they don't have the nerve to state the unspeakable. Peace of Christ, Bach |