Dear ChoirBoy, Welcome to CBF! I'm in the same sort of position as BLues is, in that I only possess one of the two qualities in the title "Christian Boylove Forum". The difference between me and him is, I claim to be a Christian. :^) I'm sure Scott will be in touch with you shortly. His girlfriend found out that he's a bl last month, and that's something they're working through together. And back in October, Val posted here because she found out the man she loves (present tense) is a boylover. Does your girlfriend share your love for God? Both Scott's girlfriend and Val are Christians, and the last we heard on the board, they were both committed to loving their men, finding out more, trying to be supportive. In both cases, they discovered their friends' "secret" on their own. I'm not suggesting you come out to your girlfriend right away. Pray, listen to the advice that others will post here, keep thinking. Listen to your heart. Dirk |