Re: Not sure what to think
Submitted by Compasion on December 18 1999 at 09:41:02
In reply to Not sure what to think Submitted by ChoirBoy on December 14 1999 at 04:27:38
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I have never been on a forum before for boylovers. And I am a little hesitant in entering. However, being a christian for just over 20 years and sensing the christian character of this forum (however I have many Christian friends who would disagree) I am entering for the first time. I wish to give you some advice. In the past I have always found it difficult in how to approach a lady friend, who had a potential of being a future wife, on the subject. Not to be a discouragement, but each time it ended the relationship. However, let me make one exception to that. I ended one relationship after telling this particular laddy friend, because I didn't feel I could be a good husband to her and father to her children and because of my mixed feelings. Since becoming a christian I have been to the mountain tops and to the deep valleys over my love for boys. I guess I became to realize I was a boylover just over the last 10 years, however I now realize I have been one all my life. Since I was a boy. May I encourage you to enter this with great prayer and thought. Somehow I think she needs to know before the giving of the ring, but in my experience the female does not understand this about man. There are two things I believe scripture teaches. One that where we are weak, God makes us strong. This is why Jesus choose Judas, a theif and love for money, to be the treasurer. Did Jesus know this about Judas, certainly, but he knew in his area of weakness lies the area of strength. And this is why boylovers make great teachers and leaders for boys. But also in that area lies our weakness. I can attess to that in my own life, of which one day I may share with you here. And two I believe scripture teaches that some man a born eunchs. That is born with no attraction to women. I have come to realize that again in my own life. I have had many girlfriends, being great friends, but none I can say I was sexually woed by. May God encourage you to make the right choice. Your friend in Christ, Compassion...:=)› |