I think that the degree of sexualisation of hetero relationships is a distortion of what they should be! This culture is seriously dysfunctional. Sex is now an "appetite" to be fed rather than a consummation of love between two people. Small wonder that heterosexuals don't trust bl's to control themselves, when almost everything in our culture is geared towards instant gratification. Dirk (Whose head is spinning, and feels as if he may be verging on the incoherent. I see the doctor tomorrow.) |