Re: Some questions for you
Submitted by DJSpike on January 01 19100 at 19:54:40
In reply to Some questions for you Submitted by Mark on January 01 19100 at 17:22:57
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Mark Wrote: these questions: <"Are all sexual feelings lust?" Not ALL sexual feelings are lust. I believe that sexual feelings can also be a form of deeper love for one person. It can be somthing very special that is expressed between two individuals that have bonded on the foundation of freindship. Ofcourse we all know what the feelings of lust are. We all have experienced it in our lives one time or another. We are human. Lust is somthing that you seek self pleasure in someone or somthing to benifet only you. While sexual feelings or attractions for that person out of love is somthing much more special than lust. <"Or only those for someone you're not married to?" Well, if that person were married and looked and/or thought about other women/men then yes that would be lust. Becuase he/she would be commited to each other. Therefore they should be true to each other. <"Or only those for the same gender?" That depends on the individual and what their relationship is founded on. <"My feelings for boys are pretty much the same quality as those that you have for women." Same here! <"I did not choose my feelings any more than you chose yours." I agree with you 100% <"Do you repent of all your sexual feelings for women?" Well, first of all I don't have sexual feelings for women becuase I am not attracted to them. But to change you question into, "Do I have sexual feelings for Boys" that would be another story. First of all before I answer that. I have to make clear that as you say, "My feelings for boys are pretty much the same quality as those that you have for women." I pretty much have the same type of natural feelings for a boy. So yes I do have sexual feelings for boys. Does this mean I'm bad!? No, ofcourse not. Think about it, every type of relationship has to have some level of sexual attraction. Otherwise nobody would really go out with each other, or you and I woouldn't be here. So, to point out, sexual feelings do go with love. I'm confused....are you trying to say that my love and attraction towards boys is purely lust!? If so I would find that very insulting. I love children with ALL of my heart and simply DO NOT look at them as sex objects. <"It can be very damaging to a person to claim that if they are not healed of a physical or psychological illness, or are not changed in some physical or psychological trait, then they are rejecting God. Even the apostle Paul did not have his thorn removed by God. God may not have created people in the way you wanted him to, and may not work in the way you think. His ways are higher than man's. Wait a minute...are you saying that being a BL is somehow connected with a physical or psychological illness!?? I believe fully that as a BoyLover I absolutely am not mentally or physically ill in ANY way. The only people who you should consider being that are the rapists and abusers and the mass majority of the heterosexual men that are usually the victims of it. Mark, I really appreciate you trying to help me....but you wanted my opinions so I gave them to you. I hope you atleast see that I am not a total sinner and that my love for boys is FAR more greater than lust. You should know that. You are a BL yourself aren't you?? |