"How is that you seem to understand a BL where all the women I dated and got to the serious part could not understand my failures." Well, there've been a fair number of women on the boards who are understanding of boylovers – offhand, I can think of MarchHare and SatinLady at BoyChat, and Melia over at Close Encounters right now. So I think that it's probably less a male-female thing (I know plenty of men who are hostile toward boylovers), than a question of how individuals react. And of course women who dated you might have had personal difficulties with the idea of you being attracted to someone besides themselves. But thanks at any rate for your kind words. Heather |