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Submitted by Oliver on February 09 2000 at 23:09:55
In reply to Re: Tell us more Submitted by Steve on February 09 2000 at 22:03:35
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Hi Steve, I share in your struggles and triumphs with regards to BL. I think everyonme has thier own little theory of why we feel the way we do; I trhink rationalizing something only escapes the issue of what do we do with these feelings. I have chosen to work with children, and, I think, for the right reason. Like you I struggle with "looking" and the subject has come up within my family and church. Ultimately, like you, I use accountability and try to be open about these issues. I have also been to counseling and have come to terms with the fact I don't think I will change; I do LOVE God, and I credit that for not going off the deep end. Life is a rollar coaster for a great many people, and I admire how you've chosen to live a celibate lifestyle. Living with a label is not always a friendly thing, and I understand how that can feel too. I think the best thing we have on this board is eachother. I'm always amazed at the depth a friendship can go without standing face to face. Please do continue to post, to be involved, and, as God's house should be, there's never a closed door, not a closet to hide in, and you are welcome as you are, with open arms. Thanks for sharing, and e-mail me please if you ever need another friend to share, pray, and fellowship with. ((((((HUGS))))))) and many blessings Oliver |