Careful about email
Submitted by Forgiven on May 02 2000 18:22:39
In reply to Be open submitted by Huck Finn on May 02 2000 10:32:22
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If you click on the bold as Huck suggest it will use your normal email - which is likely to identify you to a wider audience than you perhaps want. So the advice is to set up an anonymous account like mine on goplay or huck's on Hotmail. It's a lot more secure that way. Beyond that - my advice is to trust her; certainly since I've been out as a boylover to a fair number of people, it has been generally positive, though a few relationships have been blown apart. Also it is unlikely that it will come as a complete surprise - she probably has picked up something 'in the wind' - I've been 'spotted' from my associating with teenagers after a church service by one observant woman in the congregation, so IT DOES HAPPEN. Fortunately she's coped very well - she approached a mutual friend who was able to reassure her fears. But exactly how.... that's the hard one! But more broadly from my own experience I would encourage you to believe that your age of attraction (as we tend to term it here) can drift upwards to 'legality'; if you work at relationships with older boys rather than the younger end of your range. Certainly it is far less fraught to have a YF of 19 than 14 or younger. Hope that helps - we look forward to hearing how it goes! |
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