>>FOD "That is, if you take a basically bisexual boy, on what basis (besides the religious reasoning) would you want to discourage him from exploring that homosexual side? Why would it matter which way he goes?" If a kid can still go either way, then I'd encourage him to go straight. Not because it's necesseraly "better", but you can't deny that it's easier. There's no need for him to go trough the mess and problems we have all gone trough. I believe that most peoples sexual preference is allready determined when they are born. But as I've heard, there are also people who aren't necesseraly gay, who can become gay. I mean: when you are young you can flirt with the idea, try stuff and take it all the way. There are loads of straight people who have had homosexual encounters when they were young and vice versa... -zip- |