My guess is that the BL orientation is like any other in terms of its fluidity; it may be fluid for some people and not others, and at different times of life for different people. Of course, as far as I know, little is known about the fluidity of orientations in general. Personally, I have found that I have been attracted to some boys two or three years beyond my typical AOA if I have first gotten to know them (and been attracted to them) when they were in my AOA (which is about 12-15). However, I cannot imagine being attracted to men over 19; my feelings toward them are as indifferent as they are toward women. Mark |