I'm not implying any of us here would take such advantage of a boy as the men in those stories. What I am trying to say is that I think we need other reminders beyond the Biblical admonisions as to the very real and, in my opinion, likely posibility of the harm that can be done to a boy, even if the boy consents or even initiates it. If you don't believe that to be true, that's your perogative. But I believe it IS true. And I believe there is a very real danger that boylovers, including myself, delude themselves into thinking boysex with a willing boy is ok because it's just another way of showing the boy you love him. Personally, I've found that when I want something badly enough, I can make myself believe almost anything. And let me be honest here. I want so very badly to have a loving SEXUAL relationship with a boy that I would probably give up almost ANYTHING for it. I would DO almost anything for it. I would probably even ignore God's laws for it. But one thing I would NEVER do is take a chance on hurting the boy for it. So that's what I focus on to help me maintain self control. It seems to work well for me. It keeps my eyes on the boy's face and not on his crotch or butt. It keeps me from glancing over to the next urinal when a boy is peeing beside me. Maybe it can help others too.

Dakota