I'm curious about the order - though I guess I did do something similar because during my teenage years a member of staff at my school was in effect an AF in the sense of being someone I hung out with a lot, though it was a surprise when he made a pass at me, which I declined.

You say since then you've always had a YF.... more envy! When do you lose them as YFs? Do you stay in touch? How far does your AoA rise gently each time round or is there a clear cut off point at the top?

Hope you don't mind my asking these questions; my own group of YFs are now 27/28, I've lost contact with previous ones - but they faded from my life a LONG time ago...