We all need to accept that sex inside a marriage between a man and a woman is the only holy, God-approved way of enjoying sexual intimacy, bonding and the reproduction of children - that is not negotiable from the reading of the bible, regardless of our feelings, happiness, sexual mores of the age we live in etc... any other sexual activity is a sin against God, Jesus, ourselves and others. God sets boundaries for us because He loves us.
I hope that this helps you - personally I am attracted to teenage boys so I cry out to God to help me and keep me from sin