Firstly let me say ... it is quite clear that from some of the posts some have acted and/or are struggling not to act.

It is really hard to make a general statement as I was trying to do without excluding some people.

I hope that my words can be taken in the Spirit in which they were meant without getting tied up in what specifically applies to who.

As regards condoning/not condoning.. I don't need to point out that desire for a child is wrong acted on or not ... the fact that you all are here, expressing the struggles and difficulties that you do indicates you know that as well.

Regarding my healing .. I wouldn't be able to say what I have, if I wasn't completely healed.